Sunday, December 4, 2011

Secret Newlywed Behaviors: The Best Parts About Arguing...

No one likes arguements and disagreements 
during the honeymoon period however Team Pancakes is finding out they happen 
BUT the best part about this is what occurs afterwards.    
And of course they include...


including butterly kisses
Source



The best thing you can do in any relationships 
regardless of how long you've been married (or together) 
is to make amends quickly
 after an arguments and disagreements, 
however you do it..
do it fast and ASAP.

Happy Sunday Friends!!


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20 comments:

  1. Darby HawleyDecember 4, 2011 at 12:25 PM

    So True!

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  2. Alida SharpDecember 4, 2011 at 3:27 PM

    We try to make up as soon as possible but sometimes it took longer than we liked or required counseling when the issue is more intense.

    May your disagreements be few and far between!!

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  3. KimDecember 4, 2011 at 3:57 PM

    Making up can be great. But as crazy as it was with my friend the passion was in the middle of the arguments not afterwards. So the argument seems pointless. lol

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  4. LaurenDecember 4, 2011 at 4:30 PM

    so true! making up (and making up quickly) is such a vital part of a healthy marriage!

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  5. ms.composureDecember 4, 2011 at 5:17 PM

    yes i could not agree with you more! but i will admit...i do like getting the flowers and the making up part...LoL

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  6. UnknownDecember 4, 2011 at 5:27 PM

    it is so important to make amends as quickly as possible, yes. my rule with hubby is that no matter how mad we are at each other, we NEVER go to bed angry... and always sleep in the same bed, no matter what. my friend told me that she gets angry and doesn't make up for days.... how weird is that?

    hope you had a fab wknd! :)

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  7. Bring Pretty BackDecember 4, 2011 at 6:41 PM

    Oh yes. Arguements happen!
    Glad you made up!
    Have a pretty day!
    kristin

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  8. Eat To LiveDecember 4, 2011 at 6:49 PM

    It is so hard to get along all the time... but you are right.. making up is the nice part.

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  9. Closet FashionistaDecember 4, 2011 at 7:29 PM

    Hehe aww!! I have yet to experience this since I've never been married, or even had a long term boyfriend XD
    http://www.closet-fashionista.com/

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  10. DesirayDecember 4, 2011 at 7:50 PM

    every couple has them but always make up as soon as you can because other wise the worse it will become, because the enemy will use your argument and try to separate you two and that is a no no...

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  11. Theodora OfosuhimaDecember 4, 2011 at 7:56 PM

    I once wrote a post about how bickering reinforces relationships.

    Like the italian saying goes "Non è amore, se non è litigarello", literally translated “It is not love, if it not bickering.”

    Healthy relationships need conversation which entails disagreement without insulting each other but making up in the end with open heart.

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  12. Bravoe RunwayDecember 4, 2011 at 8:54 PM

    Have you ever considered changing careers to become a marriage counselor? I think you provide some great tips.

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  13. Marisa A.December 4, 2011 at 9:40 PM

    Could not agree more! Always best to make amends quickly and not hold anything in.

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  14. Sara HintonDecember 5, 2011 at 12:44 AM

    Love this! So true. :)

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  15. A Life Un-StyledDecember 5, 2011 at 3:38 AM

    After the flowers and cuddles I think, what was that argument about?!

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  16. This Cookn' MomDecember 5, 2011 at 11:08 AM

    Love the making up and the forgiveness parts...not a huge fan of flowers. :)

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  17. AmandaDecember 5, 2011 at 1:57 PM

    I really liked this post!

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  18. aliciaDecember 5, 2011 at 5:58 PM

    so true - cute post!

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  19. Hollie AnnDecember 6, 2011 at 12:31 AM

    As quickly as possible! Cute post mrs pancakes :)

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  20. Jessica @ Here(and)NowDecember 6, 2011 at 11:25 PM

    wonderful advice, for a couple in any stage of their relationship! i like the name of your blog, because it really is a "team" and not two individuals.

    Thank you for your post on my blog :)
    xx

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