Sunday, December 4, 2011

Secret Newlywed Behaviors: The Best Parts About Arguing...

No one likes arguements and disagreements 
during the honeymoon period however Team Pancakes is finding out they happen 
BUT the best part about this is what occurs afterwards.    
And of course they include...


including butterly kisses
Source



The best thing you can do in any relationships 
regardless of how long you've been married (or together) 
is to make amends quickly
 after an arguments and disagreements, 
however you do it..
do it fast and ASAP.

Happy Sunday Friends!!


20 comments:

Phil and Darby Hawley said...

So True!

Alida said...

We try to make up as soon as possible but sometimes it took longer than we liked or required counseling when the issue is more intense.

May your disagreements be few and far between!!

ASingleMothersJourney said...

Making up can be great. But as crazy as it was with my friend the passion was in the middle of the arguments not afterwards. So the argument seems pointless. lol

Lauren said...

so true! making up (and making up quickly) is such a vital part of a healthy marriage!

ms.composure said...

yes i could not agree with you more! but i will admit...i do like getting the flowers and the making up part...LoL

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♥AdamAlexMommy♥ said...

it is so important to make amends as quickly as possible, yes. my rule with hubby is that no matter how mad we are at each other, we NEVER go to bed angry... and always sleep in the same bed, no matter what. my friend told me that she gets angry and doesn't make up for days.... how weird is that?

hope you had a fab wknd! :)

Bring Pretty Back said...

Oh yes. Arguements happen!
Glad you made up!
Have a pretty day!
kristin

My Journey With Candida said...

It is so hard to get along all the time... but you are right.. making up is the nice part.

Closet Fashionista said...

Hehe aww!! I have yet to experience this since I've never been married, or even had a long term boyfriend XD
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Desiray said...

every couple has them but always make up as soon as you can because other wise the worse it will become, because the enemy will use your argument and try to separate you two and that is a no no...

toi said...

I once wrote a post about how bickering reinforces relationships.

Like the italian saying goes "Non è amore, se non è litigarello", literally translated “It is not love, if it not bickering.”

Healthy relationships need conversation which entails disagreement without insulting each other but making up in the end with open heart.

Bravoe Runway said...

Have you ever considered changing careers to become a marriage counselor? I think you provide some great tips.

Marisa A. said...

Could not agree more! Always best to make amends quickly and not hold anything in.

Sara, Luke, and Brooklyn said...

Love this! So true. :)

Vanisha @ Vanisha's Life In...Australia said...

After the flowers and cuddles I think, what was that argument about?!

This Cookn' Mom said...

Love the making up and the forgiveness parts...not a huge fan of flowers. :)

Amanda said...

I really liked this post!

alicia said...

so true - cute post!

Hollie Ann said...

As quickly as possible! Cute post mrs pancakes :)

Jessica @ Here(and)Now said...

wonderful advice, for a couple in any stage of their relationship! i like the name of your blog, because it really is a "team" and not two individuals.

Thank you for your post on my blog :)
xx